Coming Home to Yourself
A holistic coaching & mentorship for women recovering from a difficult relationship
who want to reclaim their truth, their voice, and their power.
Does this sound painfully familiar?
You look in the mirror and think, "I don't even know who I am anymore." The person you were seems to have vanished in the relationship.
You're constantly second-guessing yourself, wondering "How did I let this happen?" and you just don't trust your own judgment anymore.
Every day feels like you're just surviving, not living. You feel stuck, terrified of starting over, and can't see a clear path forward.
A part of you feels like you'll never be enough, that you're somehow unworthy of love, and you're terrified of being deeply hurt again.
You wake up with a feeling of`calm and wholeness, feeling `confident in who you are and what you want.
You trust your own judgment again, making decisions with a quiet confidence and moving forward without looking over your shoulder for permission.
You can set a clear boundary without feeling a wave of guilt, knowing you are worthy of protecting your energy.
You finally silence the inner critic that sounds suspiciously like everyone who ever put you down, and learn to speak to yourself with kindness and respect.
And most importantly: You can freely be, act, speak, and think without that constant, exhausting second thought.
Now, imagine a different reality...
And this is how it changes everything, day to day...
The Friday Night Test: You come home to a quiet house on a Friday night with no plans and feel a sense of peaceful possibility, not a wave of panic or dread. You genuinely enjoy your own company.
The Menu Decision: You look at a restaurant menu and confidently know what you want in under a minute, without needing to check what anyone else is having. The crippling anxiety over small decisions is gone.
The Boundary Moment: A family member asks you to do something you don’t have the energy for. You’re able to say, "I can't do that right now," clearly and kindly, without feeling a two-day guilt hangover.
The Ex-Text Neutralizer: Your phone buzzes with a text from your ex. Instead of the familiar jolt of anxiety or a racing heart, you feel a sense of calm neutrality. You realize you have a choice in how, or even if, you respond.
Hi, I’m Vanja,
My work is different. I combine practical coaching with deep shamanic healing to go beyond just talking and clear the wounds at a soul level. I'm not here to fix you but to give you a map back to the wise, whole self you already are.
If you've found that talk therapy can name your patterns but can't change your energetic reality, we're on the same page.
Rediscover Your Identity
Uncover who you are outside of your relationships and what makes you feel authentically alive.
Reclaim Your Power
Heal the energetic wounds and patterns that keep you feeling stuck, and learn to trust yourself again.
Build Your New Life
Get clear on a vision for your future and confidently create a life that is joyfully and powerfully your own.
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Your Questions Answered
What do you offer?
I offer one-to-one coaching and ongoing mentorship for women recovering from difficult relationships, who want to feel like themselves, heal and expand into best version of themselves they have no experienced before. We do this together in a partnership; combining practical tools, compassionate support and accountability, I’ll guide you step by step through entire process of healing and growth.
Who is this for?
My work is for women who feel stuck after a breakup, divorce, or emotionally difficult relationship and want to rebuild confidence, boundaries and self-trust, and simply create a better and happier life for themselves.
How does it work?
We meet once a week for coaching, energy healing, or integration, accountability and learning new practices for that week. Coaching sessions are about 60 minutes long, energy healing can be up to 120 minutes, depending what we do. There are two different lengths of a program to choose from, depending on your needs and commitment. You can checl all the details at my Programs page.
How do I start?
Book a free 20-minute discovery call via the Contact page, and let’s have a chat. I’m very excited to meet you and see if I can help you.
You can also visit my Free Stuff page and download 7 Days Journaling prompts and work through them, and do Are You Living Your Truth Quiz
Your First Step, Your First Seven Days
This simple and free 7-day journaling guide will help you create a small, private space to connect to yourself again.
Each day offers one prompt designed to help you reconnect with the parts of you that may have gotten buried—your own voice, where your energy is going, and what brings you joy.
If that feels like a helpful first step, you can download it here.